How do you eat an elephant?

Answer: One piece at a time!

Want to pick up a new hobby but finding it too time-consuming to learn?

Want to pursue your dream study course or career choice but feel it is too daunting to even start?

Want to start a blog but droppped the idea because everyone says you can't keep it up?

Want to build a solid spiritual life but don't feel you have it in you?

The question is probably not whether you can, or have the time or potential to do it. It's probably that you feel you can't accomplish it within a timeframe you can visualize. But that's the whole thing --- you don't have to!

We want to achieve everything at once! It doesn't work that way! We build it up one piece at a time! Water dripping onto a rock can, over time, bore a deep hole through it, a fraction of a millimeter at a time.

Our hospital (St Andrew's Community Hospital) was officially opened by the Minister of Health this morning. I can still remember the many changes of plans over the past 8 years, the number of times church members asked me whether the project would ever get off the ground, the starts and stops even after the official ground-breaking in 2003, not to mention the huge financial challenge of raising the money. But we kept doggedly at it, with the help of God and many good people, one challenge at a time. The building took shape, brick upon brick, one at a time. Today, the hardware and processes are in place. We just have to keep nurturing the "heart-ware", tending the soul of the hospital, again, one piece at a time.

Imagine what you can accomplish if you have the determination, the planning and the patience to chip at it, one fragment at a time.

Done imagining? Now go do it!

Marriage Vows

As a Deputy Registrar of Marriage and Licensed Solemnizer appointed by Singapore's Ministry of Community Development, Youth and Sports, I regularly conduct marriage ceremonies for young couples.

I want to thank my friends Keng Boon and Huey Fang whose marriage I solemnized yesterday in a civic ceremony at the Singapore Arts Museum Auditorium for the encouragement they brought me:

You touched me not only with your faithful and earnest attendance at the foundations for Christian Marriage course but even more with your determination to memorize your vows (which you also executed perfectly!). Clearly, amidst tears of joy, you meant every word you said, and are firmly resolved for your marriage to last a lifetime, as God intended it when he created marriage. May His blessings accompany you and His grace be sufficient for you throughout all your days!

Right is cool!

After reading an article in the Straits Times yesterday about Ronald Susilo and Li Jiawei, I felt inspired to write this letter to the Forum:

I want to applaud national badminton player Ronald Susilo for his response to the matter of he and his fiancée, national table tennis player Li Jiawei, not having moved into their Kembangan condomium yet (Straits Times, Sports, 17 October 2006): It’s not right to move in when we’re not married.” As role models for many young people, Ronnie and Jiawei, thank you for reaffirming that right is cool. Now that said, let’s leave their private lives alone so that they can get on with the Asian Games.

Hope it gets published as I really want to encourage them, and share the inspiration that his quote brought me!